I'm a mom on a mission to get my kids through the jungle of puberty while keeping my sanity along the journey.
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Wednesday, March 30, 2022
Wordless Wednesday - April is National Jazz Month
Monday, March 28, 2022
Muffins with Mom – When the student becomes the teacher
I stood
behind them in quiet observation. My son leaned over near his vehicle’s tire, explaining to his dad, how he realized the
tire needed attention. Their voices were muffled, but the gestures and body
movements played like a silent movie as I looked on.
Have you
ever wondered whether you child has listened to the lessons you tried to teach
them? As my children grew through the stages of learning and developing, there
were times when they made me question my sanity (that’s when I leaned on
faith). Today when I watch them silently, and listen to the things they say, I
know they have learned many lessons.
If I’m being
completely honest, there are many times I learn lessons from my sons. There are
days when I’m excited to learn something new, then there are days when I fight
change. For instance, I don’t like upgrading my cell phone. My son said, “A new
phone has so many features that you can use for your blog and writing.”
“That’s
okay, I’m just getting comfortable with the features on the phone I’ve had for
two years.”
My son
finally convinced me to get a new phone, one that was outside of my technology
skillset. “I’ll help you get it set up,” he said. And he did.
It was the
middle of the night (10pm) as he to coach me through various features of the
phone. “Do you want to set up face recognition for unlocking your phone?”
“Sure, why
not” I said.
“Take off
your glasses and follow the directions.”
I did as my
son instructed, I removed my glasses, and stared at my reflection in the
phone…and screamed with my eyes. My hair bonnet was perched on my head, the
collar of my warm fleece housecoat was prevalent, and there appeared to be dark
circles under my eyes. I moved my head up, down, and side to side as the arrows
on the phone directed me.
My son
fiddled with his phone as he waited for me to complete the task he had given to
me. I interrupted his focus. “Um, I don’t think this facial recognition is
going to recognize me tomorrow.”
As I learn
to do different things with technology, my son learns to be patient. As you age
remember, you’re never too old to learn something new; And it’s okay that the
student becomes the teacher.
What is one
thing that you have learned recently?
Friday, March 25, 2022
Fitness Friday – There’s an app for that – What tool do you use for fitness?
Fat, fat
go away, don’t come back another day. I repeat that mantra over and over, in hopes to convince my
inner thinner girl to show up. Some days are better than others in search of a
consistent fitness lifestyle.
One thing
that I have found to be valuable in a fitness routine is use of a fitness app. You
can access a workout from almost anywhere…and that’s exactly what I did, while
on vacation.
I rolled out
of bed, leaving behind four plush down filled pillows, and warm blankets. The
room was dark, the only audible sounds were the humming of the heater, and a
creaking noise. I soon discovered that the creaking sound was from my ankles
and other joints snapping into place in the early morning.
A few
stretches later, I was dressed in yoga attire, shoes laced, and ready to exercise
in my hotel room. I selected a 30-minute workout from my app, that didn’t
require weights or other equipment. My body weight proved to be suitable for a
strength workout (comparable to lifting heavy
weights).
The warm-up
started, the repetitions became more intense, the trainer talked…I yelled back,
as much as I could in a quiet room with strangers on the outskirts of my area.
Following the trainer, I was jumping and, twisting, with added heavy breathing
and grunting that he wasn’t doing.
I was
praying that sleeping vacationers in rooms next to or below me didn’t hear muffled
sounds, and my feet slapping the carpet and assume I needed to place the Do
Not Disturb door hanger in view.
After thirty
minutes, I chanted once again, Fat, fat, go away, don’t come back another
day.
Find the
tools that work best for you, that will keep you consistent in your self-care. Whether
your tool is an app, or something entirely different…Don’t give up on yourself.
What tools
do you use for fitness motivation?
