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Friday, March 31, 2023

Fun Friday – How to tackle weight loss goals during menopause?



Menopause is fun, Menopause is fun…said no one ever. You don’t have to be afraid of the big bad wolf, just know she’s lurking around. That girl called Minnie Pause will try to rob you of your senses (brain fog) and steal your energy (leaving you tired and not wanting to workout). Don’t fret, regroup and reassess your goals and priorities.

Weight gain. My grandmother used to call it the middle-aged spread. Experts say hormone changes during menopause can cause weight gain, but this is not the only factor; lifestyle and genetic factors also play a role. How do you handle weight loss challenges during menopause? Get right in their face, point your finger at them and say, “I’m not going down without a fight.”

Here are 3 ways to change your thought process for better weight loss success, by changing your goals.

New Weight Loss Goals

1.      Ability to wear a shirt tucked in

2.      Ability to breathe normally after climbing a flight of stairs

3.      Make healthy eating choices

As soon as you become determined to set new goals there will be distractions and temptations. What do I mean?

I’m a nighttime snacker (daytime too), my food of choice is sweets. I set a goal to give up snacks for 30 days. On day four without sweets the temptation happened. It was during my lunch break at work. I was at the drive-thru placing an order for my coffee, the voice from within the little box asked, “Would you like a chocolate chip cookie with that?”

The voice within my head screamed, “NO I don’t want a chocolate chip cookie. I just set new weight loss goals. Are you trying to derail my efforts?” I relaxed my scrunched eyebrows and said, “No thanks, just the coffee.” Whew, close call.

Menopause Ain’t No Joke.

Menopause is not fun, but you can poke fun at it. Do you have tips for conquering weight loss goals?

If you enjoyed today's post, check out my book Menopause Ain't No Joke for more stories that take a light hearted look at life's struggles.

  

Wednesday, March 22, 2023

Wellness Wednesday - Motivational quotes from women comedians

It’s Women’s History Month. Below are quotes by female comedians and actresses, to motivate you.

​​It’s your outlook on life that counts. If you take yourself lightly and don’t take yourself too seriously, pretty soon you can find the humor in our everyday lives. And sometimes it can be a lifesaver.

— Betty White

If you feel like there’s something out there that you’re supposed to be doing, if you have a passion for it, then stop wishing and just do it.
— Wanda Sykes

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.

-Lucille Ball

Comedian Jenna Kim Jones
Video Credit: Dry Bar Comedy

 


Monday, March 20, 2023

Monday Musings – International Day of Happiness – What makes you happy?

 

Fun times at a Mic Larry Comedy Show

Any day is a great day to spread happiness and to engage in things that cause you to smile. One thing that brings me happiness is sharing the joy of laughter through comedy.

Do enjoy watching a comedy show? Have you ever thought about what those comics are like off stage? Did you know that you can sign up for comedy classes/workshops?

If you’ve ever thought you’d like to try comedy, the workshops are available to you. Different workshops offer different things. In my first classes I learned about stage presence, the comedy language, and how to set up a joke.

In the classes each person has a different reason for being there. Some want to pursue comedy as a career, others are there because someone said they were funny.

Enough about that stuff, let me take you behind the scenes of how I prepare for a comedy show. I should tell you not everyone prepares for a show in the same manner. Because I am a writer, I like to write my jokes down. Even if I decide to go a different direction the day of an event, I have a foundation in my head to pull from.

Below are photos my son took as I was preparing for a show that I knew would stretch me out of my comfort zone. He said, “Relax ma, breathe, this is not your first rodeo.”

My son pulled up a playlist of songs that were my favorites. I rocked to the beat and sang some of the lyrics as I reviewed my notes.


Preparing for a comedy show (me)



Performing comedy is not always easy, but it’s fun, it’s my happy place. What makes you happy? How will you share happiness with others?


Wednesday, March 15, 2023