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Wednesday, November 7, 2012

My cup runneth over – What abundance of things have you experienced lately?


What unexpected gifts or blessings have you experienced lately? Here’s my short list -

·         I was able to attend a conference that I didn’t think I would be able to go to.

·         A friend gave me a gas card at a time it was really needed.

·         A parent came up to me at a football game and said, “Your son does a great job, thank you for what you do with him.”

 What does your list look like? May your cup overflow with an abundance of blessings.




Monday, November 5, 2012

Going back to school – 5 things you can learn from a third grader

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I’m going back to school for higher learning. However, it’s not at the collegiate level. I’m going back to elementary school…as a substitute teacher. Last week I was assigned to a third grade class. It was a little more sophisticated than the kindergarten classes I’ve experienced.
There are five things that I learned from my encounter with the third grade class:

1.      Ring a bell when the kids are being too loud. The teacher had a small hand bell on her desk for this purpose. I allowed the students to talk quietly, but at one point their voices began to elevate. The little girl who sat near the teacher’s desk leaned over to me and said, “You can ring the bell, they’re not supposed to talk this loud.”

2.      Don’t let too many kids go to the bathroom. I let 4 or 5 kids go to the restroom (not all at once) before I realized it was becoming a pattern.

3.      Take away minutes of recess for kids who are talking too much. Taking away recess is like snatching an ice cream cone from them. They DO NOT want to miss recess.

4.      Third graders are competitive. I turned their social studies assignment into a quiz bowl game. As I asked questions, hands shot up in the air and waved frantically.

5.      Everyone will ask to do things their teacher doesn’t normally let them do. A boy with big brown eyes asked, “Can we read books when we’re done with our work?”

“Sure,” I said. I was so excited that he wanted to read. Then it was brought to my attention by a girl with long braids, “Mrs. V. we’re not supposed to read those books. They belong to kids from the other class.” We put the books away and did an alternate activity.
What I really learned that day in third grade is that adults can learn a thing or two from kids.

What are you learning from kids lately?

Sunday, November 4, 2012

What would you do if you saw someone with a spot on their clothing?


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Suppose you were working out at a fitness center and a woman near you was doing squats. When you glance in her direction you notice that she has a brown spot on her butt, large enough to be noticeable. Would you tell her or pretend you don’t see it?
A woman at the fitness center I frequent told me this actually happened to her. She was focused on getting her squats done, oblivious to fact that anything was wrong. To top things off she was working out near a group of men AND the spandex pants she was wearing were a little thinner than she realized.
As fate would have it the woman did not discover her wardrobe dysfunction until she got home. The reason for the spot on her bottom was due to a chocolaty granola bar she had eaten in the car. Pieces of chocolate had fallen onto the seat, never to be seen again…by her.
Many times we don’t know any details of a situation when something looks out of place. In this case the chocolate obviously looked like something other than chocolate. Would you approach the person and say anything?