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When kids have too much time on their hands...time to refocus and prepare for back to school.
My college son - the younger years
Binders,
notebooks, ink pens and backpacks, these are all signs that back to school is
near. In my house, the back to school indicators are a little different. It’s
back to college for my cherubs.
Before I
even noticed school supplies on the store shelves, there were situations that
caused me to cry out, “When does school start for you?” Here are 3 signs that
can cause you to encourage your young adult child to prepare for departure.
1.You tell your child to unload the
dishwasher and he says, “I didn’t use any of those dishes.”
2.There seven pairs of shoes scattered
near your front door, and none of them are yours.
3.You’re out late and your child sends
a text message saying, “What’s for dinner?” You know this child can cook
because he’s sent you photos of his delectable dinners when he was away at
school.
The irony of
these situations is that you know you have taught your child about
responsibility. This was evident to me one sunny day as I walked past my sons’
car in the driveway of our house. I noticed his windows were part of the way
down.
I peeked
into my son’s car, there was no trash on the floor or in the door pockets. No
stains on the seats. Thoughts began to form in my head. I could take the empty Gator
Aid bottle he left in my car and toss it through his window. Maybe I could drop
a small candy wrapper on floor mat, for him to discover later. Hmmm.
Had I
carried out my plot, it would have been considered a bad parenting moment. The
drawback to that plan is that somehow I would still come out as the looser. My
son would have needed to use my supplies to clean up the mess. When I told my
son what I thought about doing he said, “Wow, that’s childish.”
“Saying you
didn’t use any of the dishes is not childish?” I retorted.
Life’s
little lessons continue, even after your children graduate from high school.
What would
you add to the list of signs that it’s time for back to school?
It’s so hot
outside that you could fry an egg on the sidewalk. Have you ever heard that
phrase? In my neck of the woods temperatures have been between 90 and 100
degrees lately. This gave me cause to ponder the various ways people describe an
extremely hot day.
Just for
fun, here are five wacky signs that indicate it’s going to be a hot day:
1.You walk outside and your eyeglasses
become steamed up
2.Your thighs stick together when you
walk
3.You sweat off the eyebrows that you
drew on
4.The taper candles that decorate your
dining room table have melted
5.The ice cream you purchased at the
grocery store, melted during the 10-minute ride home.
What would
you add to the list of signs that it’s going to be a hot day?