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Monday, September 29, 2014

Muffins with Mom – F.R.O.G. – Fully Rely On God



F.R.O.G. - Fully Rely On God
It was Sunday school promotion day at church. This is the time when the students move on to the next class level after reaching the maximum age for their current class. The students are called to the front of the church one at a time and their teacher says a few words of encouragement and introduces them to their next teacher.
The students receive a “goodie bag” stuffed with small biblical related trinkets. The bag they received this year contained a book mark, a pencil, a card with words of encouragement and a friendship bracelet with the acronym F.R.O.G. on one side of the bracelet. On the other side was the engraved explanation – Fully Rely On God.

Those four little words on a bracelet carried a strong message. I began to wonder, were those words meant for me? Although I was one of the teachers handing out the bags, I did not see the contents until the morning of the promotion. I looked at the bracelet again, F.R.O.G. Have I lived by this phrase?
There have been plenty of moments along my parenting journey where I needed to initiate operation F.R.O.G. A number of years ago while going through a though a financial struggle, I remember my son calling me at work in a panic.

“Ma they turned the power off.” 
“Ok, I replied when did it go off?”

“It just happened, and I was in the middle of my video game, couldn’t they have waited 10 minutes?”
I couldn’t help but to laugh as I choked back a tear. He didn’t know that we owed $1200.00 to the energy company and couldn’t pay it. F.R.O.G.

The power remained off for nine days and it was the hottest summer our area had experienced in a long time. We made it through, but not on our own. F.R.O.G.
That day of Sunday school promotion was a reminder to me that no matter what situations arise, I am not alone.

Can you think of a situation where you just felt like throwing up your hands and saying this has got to get better? That was the time to Fully Rely On God.

 

Friday, September 26, 2014

Feel Good Friday – Letter from a teacher –inspiring words for a parent



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Have you ever felt like parenting is hard work and you wonder when you will see the rewards? It could happen by a child saying I love you when you least expect it or completing chores without being asked. For my co-worker that feeling of euphoria happened for her daughter through a letter from her son’s teacher.
This is how it happened (reprinted with permission)…
Dear Claire,
I am Joseph’s science teacher. I wanted to share with you something that happened in science class today.
As you may know, we made paper airplanes so that the kids could practice measuring mass and distance. We made a huge “landing strip” out in the hall where the kids could fly their planes. I told the children that if a plane were to come close to them, they should duck, if possible.
Today during Joseph’s maiden voyage, his plane sailed toward a special needs student and instead of ducking, he caught it. Although the plane would have gone a bit farther, Joseph did not complain, but tried for a second time. His second go round, his plane didn’t go quite as far as the first, but still Joseph didn’t say anything negative.
Joseph looked over at the special needs student and saw that he was crying because he caught Joseph’s plane mid-flight and affected its flight. Joseph said to him, “It’s ok. My plane wouldn’t have gone much further anyway.” His comment made the other student feel so much better.
I wanted you to know what a great boy you have raised; one that has such kindness, compassion, and decency and at a young age.
Have a wonderful evening…

 
Claire used to babysit for my boys, now she is raising a son of her own and experiencing those special parenting moments.
When have you experienced that euphoric parenting moment?