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Monday Musings – Mental Health Awareness Month – How gratitude and humor help
Health is
wealth, this is a
statement that is used quite often. The month of May is observed as Mental
Health Awareness Month and is a great opportunity to emphasize health and
wellbeing. Laughter is one method to use to assist with your wellbeing.
I saw an
advertisement recently about practicing yoga, it read, “when your mind is
right, your body will follow.” My first thought was my mind must not be
right because my body is not doing what I want it to do…lose weight.
I’ve tried
yoga, I like yoga, I’ve failed at yoga, but I keep trying. I attribute my
stalling weight loss efforts to the aging process. I know I am stronger because
I am moving my body, but I feel like I have to work doubly hard (I know that’s
not correct grammar) to get the results I want. I’m not giving up yet, but I
will poke fun at things along the way.
In addition to
humor, expressing gratitude can help your mood. These things help me find
balance and still have joy although I have not reached my self-imposed goals
and deadlines. I’ll share a story of how I recently combined gratitude and
humor.
After experiencing
a plumbing issue, I was grateful for balanced water pressure at home.
I awoke one
morning, started my routine by brushing my teeth. I turned the water on and a stream
of water, the thickness of a pencil led, trickled out. I cupped one hand under
the faucet in an attempt to rinse the foamy toothpaste from my mouth. It felt
like an eternity before my mouth was clear of foam.
Flushing the
toilet was an adventure in itself. Just to get toilet paper to go down,
required holding the handle for a ten count. Once, I walked away and returned
and the toilet paper was back. It felt as though I was in a game of hide-n- seek.
Where was the water pressure I needed?
As I turned
on the shower, my expectations were low. Would there be enough water pressure
to work up a lather with the soap? The answer to this question was a
resounding, YES, the water worked up a lather. However, the experience was the
opposite of what I anticipated.
I stepped
into the shower, adjusted the water temperature, all of a sudden the water was
shooting out rapid fire. I blast of water hit me in the eye, then my ear. I
started swinging my arms and flailing my arms like a panicked swimmer trying to
stay above water.
A twist of
the shower head balanced the power of the water pressure. That shower scene
taught me to be grateful for the little things…working water. Being able to
laugh through the frustration of failed yoga sessions, and wacky water
pressures, was good for my mental health.
Make a
deliberate effort this month to focus on your mental health. It must be a priority…and
laughter helps.
Wednesday, May 3, 2023
Wellness Wednesday – National Smile Month
This post is a repeat from last year, yet still relevant. Happy National smile Month.
The month of
May is celebrated as National Smile Month. This day was established by the Oral
Health Foundation to raise awareness of important health issues. And it serves
as an opportunity to flash your bright smile after a dental cleaning (just my
opinion).
During my
last dental cleaning, the hygienist asked how my adult sons were doing. She
reminisced about the times my younger son would visit for his cleaning. He was
about three or four years old at the time she recalled. “He would hop in the
chair, no apprehensions, and after a short while he was asleep.”
A few years
older, my son was still relaxed enough to fall asleep. The dentist and
hygienist liked the antics of my son, but I was the one who got in trouble for
his smile. I was told, “Mom, you have to brush his teeth for him when he
doesn’t do it.” I don’t think they understood my struggle. I tried to brush his
teeth; I got a few of them brushed before he twisted and turned.
Fast forward
fifteen years or so I’ve still said a time or two, “Did you make your dental
appointment?”
His response
was, “Ma, I’ve got it from here.”
That’s when
I realized, this phase of my parenting was done. The condition of my son’s
smile was now in his hands.
What will
you do to observe National Smile Month? Dental Health.org has ideas for
celebrating. If you have grandchildren or know of young children, one idea that
sounds fun is to write a letter to the tooth fairy.
For adults
who want to show support, take a smiling selfie, and post it to social media.
There is a “Smiliey” background that Dental Health would like you to use. If
you’re interested in more details about National Smile Month, click here.
Keep your
smile healthy and brighten someone’s day by flashing your smile at them.