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My son told
me he wanted to stay all night at a friend’s house for team bonding. His statement was the equivalent of Chicken Little
(from the fairy tale) saying “The sky is falling.” Well, the sky wasn’t really
falling and I don’t think the overnight gala was for team bonding.
Its football
season and I know the fellas like to hang out together, but team bonding? I’m sure that phrase was
used to warm my heart so I would let me so go to his friend’s house. I would be
neglecting my parental duty if I didn’t investigate further.
As Chicken
Little crossed the road, Pinocchio entered the scene (same son, new line of
questioning from me).
“Are Kevin’s
parents going to be home?”
“His mom
said he could have a few friends over since school is starting soon.”
“Hmmm.” I
waited to see if his nose would grow.
After a
pregnant pause and a glare in his direction, I rephrased my question as you
sometimes see when taking a survey. “So, does Kevin’s parents know he’s
inviting people over?”
I want to
see if he would give the same response. He passed. However, I still wanted to
talk to Kevin’s mom to make sure she knew what the boys were planning.
After I was
satisfied with all the answers I received, my son left with his backpack headed
for team bonding.
As I used
fairy tale characters to describe an encounter with my son, I am reminded of a
recent article I read. The article said that fairy tales are essential in
childhood. While not everyone likes fairy tales, here are three reasons the article
gave as benefits of fairy tales:
1. Fairy tales show kids how to handle
problems.
2. Fairy tales develop a child’s
imagination.
3. Fairy tales give parents
opportunities to teach critical thinking skills.
To view the
article click here.Are you a fan of fairy tales? What fairy tale could you use to describe an encounter with your child?
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