Join me in my daily walk through the joys and struggles of parenthood. Share a word of encouragement or be encouraged. Cry a little, laugh a lot, but know it is all in divine order.

Tuesday, February 13, 2018

Cluck-A-Doodle Valentine - 3rd Annual Valentiny Writing Contest

It's time again for Susanna Leonard Hill's Annual Valentiny Contest. The rules were to create a story in which someone is hopeful, using a maximum of 214 word. Below is my entry.

Cluck-A-Doodle Valentine
(214 words)

Quack, Oink, Moo, cluck a-doodle-doo. Animals in an uproar. Barnyard friends love Cora’s Valentine cupcakes but, Cora has a broken wing. And a bad squawk.

Who will bake cupcakes for the Valentine festival?

Pig dumped flour into a bowl.

“Mooove over, let me add the milk.”

“Too much milk,” said Pig.

“How do you know? No one can read Cora’s chicken scratch.”

Duck waddled over to help. She flapped to the table, “Sugar is what we need.”  

“Squawk,” Cora wailed.

“Don’t get your feathers ruffled,” Pig snorted. Tap, tap, crunch. Pig cracked eggs…

…a little too hard.

“We must prepare the Cluck-a-doodle cupcakes for the festival or everyone will be heartbroken,” said Duck.

“I hope we can follow Cora’s recipe,” said Pig.

“Mmmm, more eggs,” Cow moaned.

Eggs were beaten, milk poured and batter stirred.

“Red drops,” Pig bellowed.

“Squawk,” Cora wailed.

“Hush Cora, we’re almost done,” said Pig.

Cow slowly opened the oven and slid the mixture inside.

Everybody waited. Cow grazed, Duck went for a swim and Pig took a mud bath.

As the sun began to hide, it was time.

Hot from the oven, the cupcakes were… flat. Tiny.

The festival must go on.

Quack, Oink, Moo, cluck-a-doodle-doo. Valen-tiny cookies for all of you.

“Cluck-a-doodle yum,” said Duck.

“Squawk,” wailed Cora.

Monday, February 12, 2018

Muffins with Mom – Chase the Lion-A pursuit of your dream

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Deep in snow, away at college, my son called and asked how much snow we had here at home. “The forecast is predicting 7-9 inches,” I said.

“That’s one thing I like about being at school…I don’t have to shovel snow.”

My son had his own perspective on the benefits of attending college. His comment opened the door to a teachable moment. Stating the obvious, I told him, “College could help you in the pursuit of your dreams.”

In his quick wit he responded with, “Ma, I know you can’t see me, but I’m rolling my eyes.”
My son’s response was sarcasm, meaning he understood what I was implying. I’ll share with you as I shared with him, a book that I just began reading. The title is Chase the Lion – If Your Dream Doesn’t Scare You, It’s Too Small, by Mark Batterson. Here’s the hook. Go after a dream that is bigger than you are.

Batterson says, “Set God-sized goals. Go after a dream that is destined to fail without divine intervention.” I was drawn into this book at page one. Batterson says that we are dreamcatchers, not just dreamers. According to Batterson, our greatest legacy is the dreams we inspire in others. While you’re chasing your dream, encourage someone else to do the same.

Suit up in your armor, get ready for battle, and chase your lion.

In pursuit of his dream, my son drives through snowbound roads daily to football workouts. Football is one path along his journey. I encourage him, as I encourage you, face your fears and chase the lion.

Friday, February 9, 2018

Fun Friday – 5 signs you have extremely dry skin

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Dressed in a knee length skit and tights, I was ready for the work day. My son shared a ride to work with me. During our drive, I rubbed my hands across my tights while sitting at a traffic light. My son said, “What is that crackling sound?”

“My hands?!”

Yes indeed, my hands were causing a crackling, popping sound as I rubbed them across my leg. It should not sound like a fire kindling when my hands touch nylon/cotton fabric. Do you think you may have extremely dry skin, but you’re not sure? Just for fun, here are 3 signs that you have dry skin.

1.      Sandpaper like hands

2.      Spaces between your fingers are white

3.      Your feet create a popping sound as they glide across a blanket

4.      Your lips hurt when you smile

5.      Cuts on your fingertips

When winter weather wreaks havoc on your skin what can you do? Take extra precautions. Here are 3 simple things you can do to protect your skin.

1.      Moisturize your skin – experts say you should apply your lotions to damp skin as this helps to seal in moisture.

2.      Wear Chapstick

3.      Keep your skin covered – wear gloves, hat

On the drive home from work, while stopped at another traffic light, I reflected over the day. This time, rubbing hands across my tights, there was no snap, crackle, pop. I kept my hands moisturized and I was wearing gloves.

What tips do you have for taking care of extremely dry skin?

Monday, February 5, 2018

Muffins with Mom – Healthy eating – 3 tips for supporting your teen

When a teen decides to adapt a healthier eating lifestyle 

“I’m going Vegan.” Those were the words my teen son announced to me one day. He said, “I going to go vegetarian first, then move into Vegan.” The following day my young adult son made his announcement. “Ma, I’m going to become a Vegan.”

I told my boys, “What you’re GOING to do, is finish that three pounds of ground beef you had me buy last week. After you make those tacos you wanted, you can go Vegan, Vegetarian, or become a Veterinarian (just needed a ‘V’ word), but you’re not going to waste that food.”

Healthy lunch prepared by a teen

It’s heart-warming to see your child taking an interest in their health and you want to support any positive action. Is becoming a vegetarian, vegan ____________fill in the blank, right for your child? Here are three tips to help your child determine if a change in eating is tight for him.

1.      Determine the motivating factor – what is driving this change for your child? Was it something she read or saw on T.V.? Is it something that a friend is doing? Is he preparing doing this to get in shape for a sport?

2.      Research – let your child research this area (with your assistance as needed). He should learn what it means to be Vegan or Vegetarian. Talk to someone who is living this lifestyle. Seek recipes that are simple.

3.      Consult a nutritionist/physician – does your child have health concerns? Will this be a drastic change in eating for her?

Disclaimer: I do not have a background in the medical field. These are things I learned through parenting my boys.

If you tips for teens seeking to become Vegan, please share.

Wednesday, January 31, 2018

Words of Wisdom – Winning thoughts

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Take control of your thoughts today. Words matter. Words are powerful. How often have we let a negative thought or thoughts enter our head and set up residence? Perhaps you’ve told yourself you’re not smart enough, thin enough, or strong enough to accomplish something.

I recently read an article that said to “clean out your thought closet.” Silence the negative voices in your mind. In fact, serve them with an eviction notice, effective immediately.

You are smart, you are strong, you are the size you want to be. Visualize what you want and have faith. Take control of your thoughts, make them winning thoughts.

Friday, January 26, 2018

Fun Friday – A day in the life of a parent

Trash Day
Anyone ever play a game with your kids called Take out the Trash? I must confess, this is a game that was unintentionally made-up in my household. No one ever wanted to take out the trash. My kids would toss items into the trash until it was almost overflowing, but didn’t tie it up.

I would push the trash deeper into the can and wait for one of the kids to take it outside. It didn’t happen. We continued to stack more trash on top, like Jenga blocks. Until finally, I tied the bag and sat it in the middle of the kitchen floor.

My son said, “Ma, did you want that trash taken out?”

I glared at him and said, “Yes, Sherlock Homeboy, take the trash out.”

While chatting on the phone with my mom one day, I was snacking on popcorn. My mother paused mid-sentence and asked, “What are you doing?”
“I’m eating popcorn.”

“Wow, sounds to me like you’re at a manufacturing plant, banging out toys.”

And the moral of the story…it’s not polite to eat while you’re talking on the phone.

Attention to details

While organizing a room, I came across an old photo of my mom holding my eighteen-year-old son, when he was nine months. I texted the photo to my son for laughs. He laughed, then he said, “Why do you still have that same lamp?”

“Because it still works.”

I guess I got my money’s worth out of that lamp.

What parenting episodes have you experienced lately?