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Monday, May 20, 2013

5 tips for handling sticky parenting situations



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Have you ever been in a situation where you contemplated how to respond? From time to time a situation may occur where you stop and think, hmmmm, how do I want to handle this? I surveyed a group of parents (ok a couple of friends) to find out situations they may have experienced or heard about.
Below is a list that we’ve compiled.

·         You forget to send money on your child’s field trip day. Most of the class returns to school with trinkets.

·         On field trip day you overhear a parent chaperone discussing which kids are difficult – you realize you child is in that category.

·         You show up on time for parent conferences, only to realize it’s the wrong day.

·         While watching your child play little league, a friendly grandparent behind you asks, “Do you have a grandchild playing too?”

·         While you’re driving the carpool, somebody passes gas, and you know it wasn’t you.

·         While grocery shopping your child screams and has a meltdown because you won’t buy the item he wants.

·         Several of your child’s friends are invited to a mutual friend’s house for a sleepover. Your child was not invited.
How do you handle a sticky parenting situation? Many times your response will depend upon the situation. In general, here are five tips to help you respond in a calm manner.

1.      Create your own ABC’s of parenting – Perhaps it could be, “Always Be Calm” and assess the situation.

2.      Create a mantra to use in trying situations – Here’s one to get you started, “This too shall pass.”

3.      On the day that you experience a sticky situation, be sure to unwind and do something for yourself – read a book you’ve always wanted to read, watch a funny movie, take a relaxing bath or have a piece of chocolate.

4.      Scream into a pillow, wait three seconds and repeat.

5.      Don’t respond right away – give yourself time to think about how you want to respond.

What sticky situation have you experienced recently? What would you add to the list of how to handle a sticky situation?

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